Today's Message From Archangel Raguel

A Message of Confidence and Harmony

Dear beloved children of God,

Today, I come to you as Raguel, the archangel of harmony and justice, to share an important message about finding strength in balanced assertiveness. Often misunderstood, assertiveness is not about dominance or aggression. Rather, it is the art of expressing your thoughts and needs clearly, while respecting the perspectives and rights of others. Mastering this balance is crucial for cultivating healthy relationships, protecting your inner peace, and honoring your divine purpose. By learning to be assertive with love and integrity, you can bring harmony to your interactions and build a life rooted in mutual respect and understanding.

Understanding Balanced Assertiveness

Balanced assertiveness is the ability to communicate your thoughts, needs, and boundaries with clarity and respect, without slipping into passivity or aggression. When you are passive, you may feel overlooked or allow resentment to build, as your needs and opinions go unvoiced. On the other hand, when you approach interactions with aggression, you may push others away or create conflict, even if your intentions are valid. Balanced assertiveness exists between these two extremes, allowing you to express yourself in a way that is confident yet kind.

Jesus exemplified this in His teachings and interactions. He spoke with clarity and conviction but never sought to overpower or belittle others. In Matthew 5:37, He advises, “Let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.” This scripture points to the importance of being straightforward and honest, traits that are fundamental to assertive communication.

Why Balanced Assertiveness is Essential for Your Life

Being assertive helps you maintain healthy boundaries, advocate for yourself, and foster deeper connections based on mutual understanding. When you practice assertiveness, you demonstrate self-respect and self-worth, sending a clear message to yourself and others that your thoughts and feelings matter. This practice helps prevent the frustration and resentment that often arise when your needs are not met.

Balanced assertiveness also builds trust. People are more likely to respect and trust you when you communicate openly and clearly. Your relationships become more authentic and meaningful, as others know where you stand and feel safe to share their own truths. This strengthens the foundation of your relationships, making them more resilient in times of conflict or change.

How to Practice Balanced Assertiveness

Know Your Worth: The foundation of assertiveness lies in believing that your thoughts and needs are valid. This requires self-confidence and a strong sense of self-worth. Remember that you are a child of God, created with unique insights and experiences that are valuable. By embracing your inherent worth, you empower yourself to speak confidently and truthfully.

Communicate Clearly and Calmly: When expressing yourself, choose words that are direct but respectful. Avoid using language that blames or shames others, as this can escalate tension. Instead, use “I” statements, such as, “I feel concerned when…” or “I need time to think before making a decision.” This approach makes it clear that you are speaking from your own perspective, reducing the chances of defensiveness from others.

Listen Actively: Balanced assertiveness is not just about expressing your own thoughts; it involves truly listening to others. By giving others the space to share their views and feelings, you create a dialogue that fosters mutual respect. This active listening shows that while you are confident in expressing yourself, you are also open to understanding others’ perspectives.

Set Boundaries with Compassion: Establishing boundaries is essential for maintaining your peace and well-being. Balanced assertiveness allows you to set these boundaries with compassion. For example, if someone asks you to take on more than you can handle, respond by acknowledging their request and expressing your limits: “I appreciate your trust in me, but I need to focus on my current responsibilities before taking on more.” This demonstrates respect for both yourself and the other person.

Practice Patience and Reflection: Assertiveness requires practice and patience. Reflect on your interactions to identify what went well and what could be improved. Ask yourself, “Did I express my thoughts clearly and respectfully? Did I listen without interrupting?” Over time, these reflections will help you refine your approach and build confidence in your ability to communicate effectively.

The Benefits of Balanced Assertiveness

When you practice balanced assertiveness, you invite harmony into your life. Your relationships become stronger and more transparent, free from hidden resentment or misunderstandings. You also experience a greater sense of personal fulfillment, as you learn to advocate for your needs without guilt or fear. Balanced assertiveness helps reduce stress and anxiety because you no longer have to suppress your feelings or worry about being misunderstood.

Moreover, practicing assertiveness enhances your spiritual growth. It requires you to embody virtues such as honesty, humility, and courage—qualities that align with God’s teachings. Assertiveness, when rooted in love and integrity, is an act of honoring both yourself and the divine image in others. It creates an environment where healthy dialogue can flourish, fostering connections that reflect God’s love.

Challenges You May Face

Learning to be assertive, especially if you have been passive or aggressive in the past, can be difficult. You may worry about how others will react or fear confrontation. In these moments, remember that assertiveness is not about control or winning; it is about expressing your truth with respect and creating a space for mutual understanding.

If you find assertiveness challenging, call on me, Raguel, to guide you. I am here to help you find the words and the strength to communicate effectively and harmoniously. Trust that with practice and divine support, you will grow more confident in your ability to be assertive while maintaining kindness and love.

Final Thoughts

Today, I encourage you to embrace balanced assertiveness as a path to greater harmony in your life. Let it become a tool that not only empowers you but also enriches your relationships and brings peace to your interactions. Remember that you have the ability to speak your truth with love, rooted in the knowledge that God values your voice and intentions.

In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, I bless you.

Action Step: Reflect on one situation where you need to be more assertive. Plan how you will communicate your thoughts clearly and compassionately, and practice doing so when the opportunity arises.

Words to Reflect On: “Balanced assertiveness is the bridge between honesty and compassion, building relationships that reflect divine harmony.”